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The Daycare (An Age-Reggresion Story)

Chapter One - Being Normal is Fun

With both hands I reached forward and grasped the cup before me, pulling it off of the display hook. I turned it over and studied the small cute star designs. There was something so cute and quaint about children’s sippy cups, I’m not sure if it was the bright, inviting shades of pink, blue, yellow, and purple, or the little star print that smiled back. I thought for a moment how nice it would be to have one, even if just for myself but felt my smile drop.

“Why am I so weird?”, I mumbled for a moment under my breath and decided to return the item to the hook. I worked at the same retailer for two years now, and always found myself stopping whenever I was around anything for children or babies. For years now I have written off this attachment as a so-called ‘baby-fever’ but I felt like it was more than that. I felt adult clothes were more boring and didn’t hold the same spark and spunk as children’s clothes did. Plus most of it was too revealing or dull. Most of the smaller spoons, forks, and plates were something I would look at from time to time also. Who am I kidding, I wanted anything that was meant for children, and children’s stuff is not meant for a 20-year-old.

“Aurora!”, my shrill manager’s voice interrupted my thoughts. “Are you going to stand there all day in the baby section or are you gonna clock out?”, she quipped. I nodded without looking at her and walked in the direction of the clock-out machine. I was mildly afraid of fighting back with my superiors, it felt foreign. To be honest, fighting back wasn’t a strong suit of mine. I felt embarrassed for an instant as I realized I was stuck in my thoughts again.

I punched out quickly, grabbed my items, and headed to my car. It was a quick drive to my home, an apartment building. When I unlocked the door I was met with the face of my mother who had a chair facing the entrance. I felt a sick feeling hit my stomach but I forced a friendly face, there was never any room for negative feelings. My mother, on the other hand, did not return this emotion. Her face was turned into a scowl and she had her scrawny arms crossed in front of her. I shared no resemblance to my mother, other than her button nose, which framed her face oddly. Her dirty-blond hair was streaking gray already, and her blue eyes were sharp. She had a few beauty marks on her face, and her lips were a thin angry line. She was much skinnier than me and shorter, but she could strike fear in me any day.

“You realize you forgot the dishes last night”, she said in a nasty tone. She lifted herself from her chair and walked over to meet me. I let my face fall into a blank expression, knowing it wouldn’t do any good anyway. When she got to me, the size difference was obvious. She was a small woman, standing only 5 feet tall, while I stood a whole half foot taller. I was insanely jealous of her height. It made her seem younger, while mine made me look like a giant. At least that’s what I thought. I set my jacket on the hook near the door and attempted to open my mouth for a response.

“I don’t want to hear it. I pay for your food, I raised you, I made you into the woman you are and I have to remind you almost every night like you’re five!”, she scolded me. I felt myself sink into the door, hoping it would swallow me. “You say you forget all the time but your room is clean! How can you remember that but not the dishes? You also didn’t fold my clothes as I asked you to, clean the toilet, or mop the floors.” It happens like this every night. I get home, she gets mad about things I haven’t done, then I do whatever she asks. I do so much every day, and she still adds on more. The worst part is she doesn’t have a job, she just lives off the government. I’m the one who pays the bills, she just provides food stamps. It’s a difficult situation but I can’t get out of it, all my money goes to bills. I felt hot tears prickle in my eyes.

“Oh, you’re gonna cry now huh? Because telling you when you’re being a horrible daughter is just so mean”, she emphasized the ‘so’ and threw her hands up in annoyance. “If you don’t want to do your part you should just leave” she snarled, getting up into my face.

“Maybe I should”, I argued, but it was barely over a whisper, it didn’t stop her from hearing it though.

Her blue eyes narrowed in anger and she talked through her teeth. “Don’t you dare talk back to me like that, you’re still my child. I will beat some sense into you if you don’t quit”.

That was enough for me to handle, I turned around and stormed out of the apartment. She didn’t bother going after me surprisingly so I just kept walking. A series of sidewalks led up to the neighborhood playground, so I just chose one and made my way up there. I wiped tears away with the back of my hand and cursed at the smeared mascara which now resided there. Thankfully no one would see it, as it was well past daylight hours. The streetlamps softly illuminated the way to the playground and when I reached it I flopped down on one of the swings. It let out a small groan of protest but held. I was a slightly big girl, not enough to be fat, but not enough to be skinny. Some people lovingly doted it as “curvy” or “husky” most likely to make girls like me feel better, but the swing gave it away in an instant.

 

Daddy Space

Exploring Daddy Space: Nurturing Dynamics in the DDLG Community

In the enchanting world of DDLG (Daddy Dom/Little Girl), where power dynamics and role-playing intertwine in a unique and consensual way. Individuals embrace different roles, including the Daddy, Mommy, or Caregiver. In this article, we delve into the concept of “Daddy Space” and its significance within the DDLG dynamic, offering insights into the nurturing relationships that flourish within the DDLG community.

“Daddy Space” refers to the mental and emotional state of the dominant partner, be it a Daddy, Mommy, or Caregiver. When Caregivers enter Daddy Space, they experience a heightened personal need to care, nurture, protect, and look after their little.

The Caregiver plays a crucial role in the DDLG relationship, providing guidance, support, and structure while cherishing their Little’s innocence. When in Daddy Space, the Caregiver taps into a deep sense of responsibility and a profound desire to care for their little in every way possible.

This space allows the Caregiver to establish a safe haven for their Little, enabling them to embrace vulnerability and indulge in age play fantasies. It’s in this headspace that the Caregiver’s natural instincts to protect and nurture are amplified. The Daddy, Mommy, or Caregiver becomes acutely attuned to their Little’s needs, creating an environment where they can freely express themselves without judgment or fear.

Caretaking within DDLG extends beyond basic needs. It involves emotional support, discipline, and unconditional love. Through activities such as bedtime routines, story time, or playdates, the Caregiver nourishes the childlike innocence and fosters a deep bond. Every action is driven by an intense desire to create a nurturing and loving environment that allows their Little to feel safe, cherished, and protected.

You see, it’s not just littles who fall into little space. Caregivers can too. Most of the time littles don’t see this. Whilst CG’s are naturally caring, and provide the all the ingredients that littles require, they are indeed times when that instinct overpowers everything else, and you’ll move mountains to be there to support the little in your life.

I guess at times, you could say that the roles could also be reversed a little bit. How? Caregivers have needs also. If these needs aren’t met in Daddy Space, then perhaps they’ll be reluctant to enter this space in the future. Yet, whilst in this space, it only benefits littles due to the increased desires to care.

Remember, within the DDLG dynamic, consent, trust, and open communication are paramount. As this DDLG community continues to grow, may it be a place of acceptance, love, and growth for all who embrace the beauty of this unique dynamic. Why don’t you head over to our private, ddlg friendly community pages and engage with others 🙂 

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We’ve been quiet of late due to a few hurdles in life, you know?! But we’re here, we’re fully committed to creating a safe, fun, friendly community for all things DDLG so you can continue to create some great, new DDLG friends.

We want you to know that over the last few days, we’ve worked tirelessly to create better experience for you guys.

How have we done this I hear you ask?

• We’ve moved our home! We’ve moved everything across to new servers. This means, everything should be a lot faster now. We’ve got more security in place. Everything should be a lot safer for you now.
• We’ve also reintroduced the live chat room, and live private chat conversations. This is ONLY available to currently logged in users.
• Our vendor stores will become active again shortly, so you can show off, and promote your DDLG creations.
• We’re going to tweak our verified user process.
• You’ll soon find us active on Twitter!
• We’re working on our rewards & items. You’ll be able to redeem these through earning stars, which are granted for various actions around the website.

Again, we’re absolutely committed to creating the best, safest, DDLG community where you can come and chat, meet, watch, and play games with new DDLG friends.

Don’t forget to check out our Instagram for social updates: Instagram Link

If you’re not sure what DDLG is, check out this blog post here.

Welcome Vixens Hidden Desires

We’ll be honest – we haven’t spammed everyone with DDLG Place. We’re growing, organically. With the right people too. When we say we actually want to build a DDLG friendly community… we mean that!

We want it to have meaning. Not just a dating pool, or a quick hook up. We want you to make actual DDLG Friends.

Anywhooooo….

Check out Vixens Hidden Desires! They create, design and sell extremely cute pacifiers! They also have an Instagram page that you can find here: @VixensHiddenDesires

The store vendors are new around here, but we made them for you. Our community, to help provide them with a cost free platform to sell their items 🙂

We know how many of you are creative little (and big) people! That’s why we’ve done this.

Your vendor store is perfectly linked to the DDLG social network. When you list a product, it gets sent directly to the activity feed for all the members to see! Who can then like, comment, or share it with their DDLG Friends.

Trusted Vendor

If you perform well in your store by providing great customer service, getting rave reviews, you’ll receive a trusted seller badge that helps instil confidence with potential buyers,

DDLG Place, isn’t just a website. It’s a DDLG community that we’re building. As with anything, it takes time (when you do it the proper way!). We’re confident that this will blossom into a nice, safe place for you and your DDLG Friends.

If that wasn’t enough to entice to you create your own store, here are some of the other features we have available to you!

• No set up or listing fees.
• Accept all major debit/credit cards.
• Daily, weekly, monthly, and yearly reports.
• Product and vendor review system.
• Own store dashboard.
• Extensive support system.
• Control your own discount codes / coupons.
• Payouts are directly into your bank account.

Screenshot of vendor dashboard.

Create a free DDLG vendor store!

That’s right… a free store. Why? We didn’t create this site, or start this community just so you could make some new DDLG friends.

We know there’s a lot of you who are creative souls. we’ve launched our vendor marketplace so you have a platform to list your products.

You’ll have full control of your products, orders, customers, discount coupons, and payouts.

Your vendor store is perfectly linked to the DDLG social network. When you list a product, it gets sent directly to the activity feed for all the members to see!

Trusted Vendor

If you’re a trusted seller, you’ll receive a trusted badge.
If you consistently perform well by receiving great reviews, or providing excellent customer service, you’ll receive badges for these too that are displayed publicly. Helping customers buy with confidence.

See, we may be “fresh” right now, but this will change. Products will also feature on social media platforms. We won’t charge you advertising fees for that!

If that wasn’t enough to entice to you create your own store, here are some of the other features we have available to you!

• No set up or listing fees.
• Accept all major debit/credit cards.
• Daily, weekly, monthly, and yearly reports.
• Product and vendor review system.
• Own store dashboard.
• Extensive support system.
• Control your own discount codes / coupons.
• Payouts are directly into your bank account.

Screenshot of vendor dashboard.

Join the community

Hello! If you’re here. You know what DDLG is, or at least have some knowledge of it. Maybe you’re here looking for some DDLG friends?

Over the last year or so, it’s been difficult to find a community. One that was private, welcoming, and everyone was free to be whoever they wanted to be. DDLG Place hopefully, will fill the needs of many people. With privacy at mind, no one can access the community unless you are logged in. Everything is kept in private.

Whilst this is a brand new community, we hope it will grow quickly. It’s a great place to chat, meet, socialise, share, hang out and make other DDLG friends.

Take a look at some of the images below to see what’s behind the locked doors.

A real, DDLG social networking community.

  • Make DDLG friends
  • Private messages.
  • Community & Private chat rooms.
  • Earn badges and rewards.
  • Community leader boards (we’ll figure out rewards later!)
  • Create community & private groups.
  • Invite & request to join groups.
  • Share statuses.
  • Verified member status.
  • + much, much more is planned.

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What is Little Space – DDLG

Have you ever heard of Little Space? It’s a remarkable state of mind where individuals immerse themselves in the world of their younger selves. It’s a place where littles and middles can freely explore their more youthful, cutesy, playful, and even childish sides.

Little Space is not only about embracing a youthful disposition but also a heightened sense of submission. It allows one to become more vulnerable and open to the caring guidance of their partner. Within this headspace, littles find solace and a unique form of self-expression.

The frequency of being in Little Space varies among individuals. Some littles prefer to inhabit this special realm as frequently as possible, while for others, it occurs only occasionally. It’s important to note that there are no set rules on how DDLG should work. Each person’s journey is entirely unique and personal.

But how does one enter Little Space?

For some, it can be as simple as encountering a beloved stuffed animal in a store or savouring a delicious cookie. It might be triggered by feelings of sleepiness or by indulging in the joy of watching cartoons. In certain cases, it could even be prompted by the firm and caring voice of their Dominant or Caregiver. However, it’s important to remember that not all littles experience Little Space. There’s also nothing wrong with that. The beauty of DDLG dynamics, is not all are the same. In fact, it’s such a varied scale that every dynamic is unique in it’s own way.

Littles who have become adept at accessing Little Space have discovered the triggers that work best for them. Over time, they have developed their own rituals and activities that facilitate their transition into this cherished headspace.

For those littles who engage in age regression, they often find themselves participating in child-like activities that they wouldn’t typically do as adults. This might involve engaging in arts and crafts projects or losing themselves in the colorful pages of coloring books. Age regression, although related to age play and DDLG, serves a different purpose. It can be a form of therapeutic healing, helping individuals overcome past traumas and finding comfort in their innocence.

DD/CG’s role within little space:

Now, you might be wondering, what role does the Dominant or Caregiver (DD/CG) play in Little Space? Sometimes, their involvement is minimal, focusing primarily on ensuring the safety and well-being of their little. At other times, the DD/CG assumes full responsibility for their little’s needs while in Little Space. This might involve planning activities, organizing the day’s schedule, preparing meals and drinks, selecting outfits, or arranging games to play together. The level of involvement varies based on the unique dynamics of each relationship.

Little Space is predominantly a private and intimate experience.

Consenting adult littles typically engage in these activities within the secure confines of their own home. It’s a world unto itself—a safe haven that encourages the expression of their inner little without fear of judgment.

While most engagements occur in private, some dynamics explore Little Space in public settings, albeit some do so very discreetly. For instance, a little might gently tug on their caregiver’s shirt, cutely asking for permission to have an iced drink. The extent to which one engages in public displays of their Little Space is entirely a personal choice. However, it’s important to remember that DDLG is a delicate subject and not widely understood. Those unfamiliar with it might raise an eyebrow or misconstrue its essence.

Little Space is a captivating aspect of DDLG that allows individuals to tap into their inner child and embrace a sense of innocent playfulness. It’s a world where vulnerability is cherished and nurtured. Whether one frequently enters Little Space or only occasionally visits, it’s a personal journey of self-discovery and acceptance.

Little Space is a unique expression of the DDLG dynamic. It thrives on trust, communication, and the loving connection between littles and their caring Dominants or Caregivers.

What is DDLG?

DDLG stands for “Dadddy Dom Little Girl”. Perhaps not a true description of what it actually is. Simply put, a subcategory of BDSM. Where the “DD” assumes a dominant, or caring role, while the “LG” takes the role of someone more submissive or youthful perhaps.

As with all things. There’s a huge, very varied spectrum that differs greatly across the board. Whoever you speak to about this topic, everyone will have their own versions of what it entails.

There’s lots of acronyms that can be confusing if you’re just diving into the world of this. Some examples: DDLG, CGL, ABDL, MDLB. We’ll explain what all of these mean further down.

We’ll start off with explaining the roles of this sort of relationship.

DD / MD

Daddy Dom / Mommy Dom is very generic. We’ll refer to both as Daddies in this section for ease of reading. Maybe it shouldn’t be labelled as “Dom”. A Dom typically is someone who is stern, has a strict set of rules, dishes out punishments.

Daddies are generally a lot more caring, loving, sweet, and kind natured with their littles (LG/LB). They are protective and strive to direct littles down the right path. Whether offering advice, sharing knowledge, and just nurturing them. Of course, some are strict too. But only because they always want what’s best for them.

Some Daddies don’t have strict bone in their body or even refer to themselves as a dom. Many are quite often pushovers. Which is also fine! As I said above, the spectrum varies widely. Their one and true role should always be to nurture their little, offer a guiding hand when needed, and just make sure they are there for them.

Some refer to it as a parental type role, which, given the main objective does fit. Hence the name Daddy. Despite the name, this is NOT like a Daddy & Daughter. Some basic rules might be made, eating, drinking correctly, study, work, etc. Following such rules are often rewarded in some dynamics.

Littles / LG / LB / Middles

What is one? Just like the dom title. When people hear the word little, they instantly think of a little child. This is not always the case.

Of course, some (like people not involved in a dynamic) still have that inner child regardless of adult age.

To put it simply, Littles just want to be cared for, protected, and guided. Is that everyone? Even if you’ve not heard of DDLG. Everyone wants to feel like that. It’s just littles express it a little more. Some Littles are just into cute stuff. They like cutesy things, it makes them happy.

Now, lots of littles are submissive by nature, some aren’t at all. But in general they like to please their caregiver. Following simple rules, knowing they’ve done a good job, and being told about it. It’s a feel good feeling, right? When someone tells you that you’ve done something good?

Other littles are “bratty”, they like to tease, push boundaries, and be a little bossy. These are just personality traits.

Parts of the spectrum include something called “age play”. This is when a little defines their little age. This could range from a baby to 11 years old. Middle’s, are upto 17 years old.

Some littles don’t even have an age, which is perfectly fine! Again, everyone has their own version of what DDLG is about. In fact, even if you’re not into DDLG, I 100% guarantee that some of the things mentioned do also apply to you!

Little Space

Many littles like to enter something called little space, all for varying reasons. A special headspace where they are sort of taken away from realty for a short time. Similar to when you really throw yourself into something, you’re focused, lose focus on the outside world. You enter your own mind, it feels great. Why? The brain releases certain chemicals, and almost feels intoxicating at times.

Not everyone enter’s little space, again, that’s okay! Those who do might find comfort in watching cartoons, cuddling stuffies, or even just become really submissive.

Daddy Space

YES! This can be a thing also. It’s often assumed that Daddies or Caregivers are always in Daddy space. That’s wrong. This sometimes gives Daddies more of an urge to protect, care, or nurture their little.

These headspaces don’t happen all the time, you certainly don’t need to be in that space for you to be a DD/CG or a Little.

Sometimes, you’ll come across a switch. This term in BDSM simply means the dom switches to a sub, and the sub can switch to a dom. This can happen in the DDLG dynamic also. Again, everyone likes to be cared for, protected, safe, and to be wanted. It’s not for everyone, but it most certainly is a thing.

DDLG can be both sexual and non-sexual.

This doesn’t mean it’s Daddy or Mommy doing sexual things with their son or daughter. It’s being under or in control with a consensual partner. Littles aren’t always littles during sexual encounters.

I mean, how many times have you heard of other people NOT in this dynamic still call their partner “Daddy”, “Please Daddy”, “Am I a good girl, Daddy”? It’s the feeling of an authoritative figure. Someone in power. Someone controlling you.

Daddies or Caregivers, do not sexual children. This is not pedophilia. These are all consenting adults.

Some littles do age regress also. Don’t confuse this with ageplay. Aggression can be the result of a traumatic past. It’s also actually used in therapy and a way of coping, dealing with, and healing from certain experiences.

Aftercare

Aftercare is important during any sort of “scene”. For example: Entering little space opens you up to being more vulnerable. While in the zone, this might not matter too much. But afterwards, back to reality, you have time to reflect. It’s important to be comforting, kind, and caring during this period. We’ll touch up more on this in another blog post.

Pet Play is also a form of DDLG, another side branch from BDSM, Dom / Sub / Master dynamics.

There is so, so much more to write about what is DDLG, but we’ll leave it there for now. Here’s a short list of the acronyms with a description.

  • DDLG /LB – Daddy Dom Little Girl / Little Boy
  • MDLG /LB – Mommy Dom Little Girl / Little Boy
  • CGL – Caregiver Little
  • ABDL – Adult Baby Diaper Lover

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